Pain

I had an interesting conversation today in the dungeon at Dark Draconis. A lass from England was there with her girlfriend. She seemed disappointed with our equipment because it isn't loaded with sex balls. She was also curious why the whipping post had no sex poses, only those for "pain". A discussion ensued about the purpose is not to inflict pain for pain sake, I receive no pleasure in that.

The lady insisted that no one would seek pain, that the purpose of D/s was to have sex. I suppose in Second Life that seems to be the purpose, as most every dungeon or piece of equipment is loaded with sex animations, and little real submission. She seemed surprised that I did not want to get her on a poseball, but that is expected I guess, she was relatively new.

I tried to explain that the art of flogging or spanking has more to do with slowly elevating the submissives endorphin levels, releasing pleasurable feelings, not pain, but, I am not sure she got it. She was on a quest for poseballs. A shame.

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